Family sparks outrage after hiding VERY rude message on dad’s gravestone


A grave mistake? Family hides a VERY rude message on their father’s gravestone in tribute to the late 59-year-old’s wicked sense of humor – but are met with FURY from cemetery staff over the offensive phrase

  • Steven Owens passed away in September at the age of 59 – and his family chose to honor by putting his favorite ‘term of endearment’ – ‘F**k off’ – on his grave
  • The gravestone features seven lines of text and the first letter of each line spells out the crude phrase when read together 
  • Owens’ daughter Lindsay and his son Zach insisted that they never meant to cause ‘offense’ with the message, but rather wanted to honor their late dad’s wit
  • According to local news outlet WIBW, staff at the cemetery have objected to the gravestone since it was installed after Owens died in the fall of last year 
  • The family is as yet unclear whether they will be asked to remove it but are hopeful that it will be allowed to remain in tribute to Owens 

An Iowa family has caused a serious controversy after hiding a rude phrase on their late father’s gravestone – sparking outrage among cemetery staff who insist the cheeky message is offensive and has no place ‘where loved ones are laid to rest’. 

After Steven Owens passed away on September 2, 2021, at the age of 59, his family banded together to come up with an idea to forever immortalize his wicked sense of humor and straight-talking personality. 

So, they came up with a way of hiding Owens’ favorite ‘term of endearment’ on his gravestone – creating a sweet tribute to the late father-of-two, which also featured the phrase, ‘F**k off’. 

At first glance, the gravestone at Warren-Powers Cemetery in Polk County reads much like many of the other sentimental tributes inscribed on the monuments around it: ‘Forever in our hearts; Until we meet again; Cherished memories; Known as; Our son, brother; Father, papa, uncle; Friend & cousin.’

An Iowa family has sparked a serious controversy after hiding a crude message on their father's gravestone - using the first letter of each line on the monument to spell out 'f**k off'

An Iowa family has sparked a serious controversy after hiding a crude message on their father’s gravestone – using the first letter of each line on the monument to spell out ‘f**k off’

Steven Owens passed away in September at the age of 59 and his children, daughter Lindsay and son Zach, said they wanted to do something to honor his wicked sense of humor

Steven Owens passed away in September at the age of 59 and his children, daughter Lindsay and son Zach, said they wanted to do something to honor his wicked sense of humor

However, upon closer inspection, the first letter of each line on the headstone spells out Owens’ beloved insult – which his daughter Lindsay insists he only ever used as a ‘term of endearment’.

‘It was definitely his term of endearment. If he didn’t like you, he didn’t speak to you. It’s just who he was,’ she told local news outlet WIBW.  

Despite the sweet sentiment behind the message, staff at the cemetery are up in arms over its hidden meaning, with WIBW reporting that many ‘have been against the headstone from the beginning, as profanity has no place where loved ones are laid to rest for eternity’.

The cemetery has yet to issue a statement on the matter – and Owens’ family says they have yet to be told whether or not they will have to remove the gravestone. 

However, Owens’ son Zach hit back at the cemetery staff who have taken offense to the message on his father’s monument, insisting that the family never meant to ‘hurt anyone’s feelings’, but only ever wanted to show ‘love’ for their dad. 

Zach and Lindsay (pictured at the cemetery) insist that they never meant to 'offend anyone' with the gravestone message - and say they only ever wanted to honor their father

Zach and Lindsay (pictured at the cemetery) insist that they never meant to ‘offend anyone’ with the gravestone message – and say they only ever wanted to honor their father 

‘No one’s forcing anyone to come out and look at it,’ he said. ‘That’s a choice that you make. 

‘We didn’t do it to offend anyone, make anyone mad or hurt anyone’s feelings. We did it because it was our father, and we love him, and that’s how we remember him.’

Owens’ obituary describes him as ‘an avid Cubs and Steelers fan’ who ‘loved his conversation with a shot of Fireball’, adding that he was also a devoted husband and grandfather. 

‘Steve enjoyed playing flag football and slow-pitch softball,’ the online obituary reads. 

‘He loved coaching his children and attending their events. Steve was an avid Cubs and Steelers fan. He loved spending time with his family and his grandchildren were his pride and joy. 

‘He enjoyed his time fishing and vacationing at Lake of the Ozarks, spending time on Danny and Wendy’s porch, and visiting with friends and family. He loved his conversation with a shot of Fireball.’

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