A dating coach has revealed one of the biggest turnoffs for men when it comes to first dates – and claims it can ruin a promising relationship.
Quentin, the founder of the RTP Dating Method, says when women commit to a first kiss they need to ‘do it right’.
He explained that many men ‘get the ick’ from a peck on the lips at the end of a date.
‘I talk to so many men about this – they are so turned off by a peck kiss,’ he said.
And added it doesn’t matter if it has on the first, second or third date it could spell the end of the romance.
‘This is assuming you want him to kiss you, obviously,’ he said.
‘If you don’t want him to kiss you lean away.’
He said there’s got to be some art to the kiss.
‘If a guy is trying to make out with you and you are just pecking him, you have got to work on your kissing skills.’
He admitted me sometimes ‘over do it’ with the post-date pash and added that there needs to be a middle ground.
Quentin’s video went viral with hundreds of people weighing in on the issue.
Many women disagreed with his take.
‘Kissing is a start, first date is not for making out. You could either respect a woman before getting to know her to get the good stuff or hire someone to have the kiss you want,’ one woman said.
‘If she pecks, she honestly did not want to kiss him. It is a message. She really is not feeling it,’ one woman said.
‘Once you get past 30 making out isn’t a thing,’ added another.
While some agreed with Quentin and said it is about finding the right balance.
‘You can still kiss someone, so he knows you’re interested and not kiss him like your grandmother.
Love a good kisser – pecks are for family,’ one man agreed.